Purifying Air Spray: Essential Oil DIY

Purifying Air Spray: Essential Oil DIY

This amazing, refreshing, purifying air spray is PERFECT to rid foul odors from rooms, furniture, and bedding!

Ditch the toxic chemicals and whip up this EASY spray for just pennies per bottle!
One of the benefits of making your homemade spray is that you get to choose the exact smell you want!  PLUS you are inhaling the aromatic benefits of the essential oils and naturally cleansing and purifying the surfaces of impurities.  That’s a WIN in my book!

I have included a few suggestions for oil combinations, but the SKY IS THE LIMIT!!!

To learn more about the simple benefits of essential oils, check out my GETTING STARTED GUIDE HERE!
HAPPY OILING xox

 

xox,

Monday Motivation: Its all about balance not perfection

Monday Motivation: Its all about balance not perfection

BALANCE.

UGH.

Why am I soooooo black and white when it comes to this?

Healthy living is NOT my strong suit but something I truly long for.
Why is it SO hard to find the balance in it all???

I will start a workout program or clean eating but place too high of expectations on myself and CRUMBLE after a few days or weeks.  So my quest (and question) is what are some ways that we can actually walk in a healthy lifestyle and not beat ourselves up when it’s not PERFECT.

Do you do that?
Dang… I sure do!
I know so many of us struggle with finding the balance in the good, bad and UGLY days and fall off the wagon a little too easy.  Pressure from culture tells us to look one way and then our body might want to look another.

So lets talk about it!!!

Check out the short video below and make sure to comment with some of your best tips and tricks, healthy eating and workout routines!  When we are in the battle TOGETHER I know that we can go so much further!

Remember that the scale does not define you.
Your pant size does not define you.
The idolized image in your head does NOT define you.

God does.
He made you perfect and gave you YOUR body.
Love what He made.  Come into agreement with His thoughts towards you and honor the frame He has given you.  I am with you in the journey and have not yet found my “sweet spot” so to say… THAT’S OK!

Love where you are at and love yourself along the journey.
It’s all about balance, not perfection.

You are worth it!

Let me know what you love to do to keep it all in balance!
Make sure to comment below with your TOP TIPS!

xox,

A bittersweet celebration of Mothers Day

A bittersweet celebration of Mothers Day

 

 

 

Some seasons come with joy.
Other seasons come with pain.

Heartache.
Challenges.
Grief.

Yet in the midst of it, hope remains firm.
Constant. Brilliant. Beautiful Hope.

And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.
-Romans 5:5

For us, these challenges have not been easy the past few months.

Yesterday I celebrated my first Mothers Day…

Two months ago today, on March 9th, our precious first baby went to be with Jesus.  Only a few short weeks after we found out that we were pregnant, the pain of miscarriage swept in like a flood.

A silent pain that so many women walk through, yet rarely talk about.
The loss of an unborn child.
Death. Grief. Aching.

To be honest, I imagined my heart to spiral into depression.
To lose heart and forget faith.
Yet something amazing happened.

I leaned into the pain and let Jesus simply hold me.

Waves of sadness and grief washed over me in the days and weeks to follow and instead of numbing out, I let my heart FEEL the sadness.

Through this process, I FELT GOD DRAW NEAR.

I wasn’t afraid to be honest with Him. To sob so deeply. To let Him know my pain.  I chose to NOT turn my face from Him, but see that He was sitting with me in my sadness.

It was deeply comforting to know that He was with me…

My husband was given a beautiful picture of our baby with Jesus, in perfection… praying for us.
This picture the Lord gave him has graced my heart with such hope.  My amazing, wonderful little baby has a greater knowledge of God than I have ever experienced in a lifetime.  How beautiful His mercies are to our hearts.

Its been 2 months and my heart has felt that sadness sweep over me this week as Mothers Day approached.
I let the tears flow freely and chose not to stuff my pain.
We celebrated, because we know that tiny, little life began at conception and forever we will be parents.

It was important to acknowledge the sadness and let the tears come.

Today I embrace the promise of HOPE.
Hope that I AM a mother.
Hope that I will be with my child for all eternity.
Hope that there is an age to come with no more death, no more sorrow, no more tears.
Hope that in the end, we will be united with God forever.

“He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away.”
-Revelation 21:4

I am a motherone of the greatest dreams of my heart.
I am a fighterwaiting and hoping for the restoration of all things.
I am a lovertrusting in the process and beautification pain brings.

I will not allow despair to steal the HOPE He has given me.
Hope rests and remains in the age to come and I will always lean into that grace.

For those of you who have lost precious babies, or the pain of infertility, and felt the sting yesterday, know that you are not alone and that I am praying for your heart, mind, emotions and body.

You are beautiful and you are loved fiercely by your Heavenly Father.

I pray you feel His affections resting on you today.

xox

Living from the heart

Living from the heart

 

A little over a week ago I turned 34.

I don’t know about you, but most years I have struggled with my birthday.
The longing to feel celebrated… but the fear of being seen.

It is a tension I’ve known all too well.

But this year is different. This year is full of beauty, wonder and freedom from fear.
Freedom from the fear of being truly known. The fear of walking with an open and vulnerable heart, fierce in love.
The fear of rejection and abandonment.  The fear of being truly seen for me.

“Show me your face, let me hear your voice;
For your voice is sweet and your face is lovely.”
-Song of Songs 2:14

This year I am on the journey towards releasing fear and entering into the adventure of living from the heart.
Truly letting my heart believe what God says about me and allowing my heart to feel and believe that truth.

Living from the place of total surrender.
Living free from comparison, performance and striving.

I want to come to learn how to live a beautiful life.
Did you know that your beauty is shouting and beckoning those around you.

Your beauty speaks.  Your beauty is inviting.
Your beauty is real, raw and vulnerable.  Your beauty nourishes those around you.
Your beauty is comforting and alluring.  Your beauty is meant to inspire, encourage and bring life.

Your beauty draws those around you to God.

This year I am choosing to live open and vulnerable, and I want to invite anyone willing to embark on the journey.
Living with the goal to know and be known by those around me.
Taking down the walls of preservation and letting the gift of love soften me.

Sometimes life hardens us, shames us and causes us to hide.
Not anymore. I welcome you 34, with a heart tender, open and expectant

 

13 Highlights from 2013!

13 Highlights from 2013!

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Can I just say that I am SO beyond excited that it is officially 2014!?
SERIOUSLY. FINALLY. THANK GOD.

2013 was possibly the most difficult year of my life, yet as I look back, quite honestly the most rewarding.  Late January last year I got SO sick.  Months passed and we couldn’t figure out what was wrong.  Chronic fatigue symptoms, debilitating migraines, social anxiety, sleeplessness. I came down with a devastating virus in June, leaving me on bed rest for nearly 5 weeks.  I had a scare with high liver enzymes and more blood work drawn in that period of time than my life combined.  I say all that only to say it was one thing after the other, and I felt like I couldn’t catch up.  I had just moved to Atlanta with my darling husband to be a part of Ihop Atlanta.  I stepped onto staff full time and within weeks had to step down from most my commitments as I was so sick I couldn’t leave my bed or house most days.  I was confused, frustrated and quickly realized my expectations were being shattered.  I was barren, alone and completely dependent on the Lord and His leadership.  I felt lost, hopeless and at times fought bouts of depression.
But to be brutally honest, I was angry things weren’t going MY way…

10 months went by, and we finally hit some breakthrough physically.  We eliminated gluten from my diet, stopped drinking soda and eating processed food, started juicing and included essential oils into the mix.  For any of you that have been following my journey the past few months, you have been tracking with me and the great breakthrough I am walking through, but as most of you know the healing process takes time!

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So as I look back at the last year, my heart has such deep gratitude at His perfect leadership.  I am grateful that I have seen Jesus in a new light, and His tenderness towards those who suffer.  I am grateful that even in the midst of my pain and accusation, He was and always will be GOOD.  I am grateful that no matter what happens to my physical body, there will be a day where I stand before Him face to face, in perfect unity, where there will be no more pain, tears, heartache or death.  I am grateful that He let me walk through the valley and shook me to my core, exposing areas of accusation I had towards Him.  I am grateful that He is big enough to handle my emotions and gave me a husband who loved me, cared for me, protected me and honored me through it all.

So to break in the New Year, I want to look back at 2013 and recognize the GOOD that happened.  I want to remember that through the heartache and pain, He was so kind to my heart.  So here are my 13 highlights from 2013, and all in all, it was a blessed year 🙂

2013 HIGHLIGHTS!
1. On January 14th we moved into our first home together!  We have a 3 bedroom, 2 bath renovated basement apartment that is the most wonderful blessing for us as newlyweds.
2.  In February I was honored to preach my first message at both services at Ihop Atlanta.  It was such a gift to my heart and a partial promised fulfilled by the Lord!
3.  I was flown to Kansas City to speak to over 300 3rd and 4th year students about an opportunity to come and spend a semester at Ihop Atlanta!
4. In early February we adopted our sweet, spunky, precious little Lovie.  She is a 6lb nothing of a Yorkie and my most loyal and faithful friend through this year of being sick!
5. We started Dave Ramsey’s Total Money Makeover & got our Emergency fund built within a few months!  It was one of the best feelings and was such a help through the year
6. In March I started my own business at rachaeldee.com and launched into a dream that has been tucked deep inside of my heart for years. I am eager to see what 2014 looks like!
7. Justin believed God for the impossible and took a leap of faith asking friends and family to help him get his dream baby grand piano! Its been such a gift to us!
8. We saved up money for MONTHS and celebrated our 1 year anniversary in Florida! We were so grateful for that gift and thanked God for an amazing 1st year of marriage!
9.  I was able to drive up to Virginia to take care of my grandmother in the hospital.  Such a sweet and wonderful time with my family 🙂
10. I spontaneously got to go to Disney World with my mama for the first time and we had a blast!  Space Mountain anyone!? We went 4 times!!!
11.  I was honored to host my in laws for the first time this Thanksgiving and cooked the entire meal with my husband!  It was such a memory that I will always remember!
12. I got to see my nephew turn 1 and see my sister and family for Christmas.  The beauty of seeing her growing into her identity and maturity as a new mom was staggering to me.
13. We were blessed to go get our first Christmas Tree together!  What a joy it was to decorate it together and celebrate the beauty of Jesus this holiday season!

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Take hold of 2014!  Believe God for a breakthrough and believe that no matter how hard life gets, how the trials and blessings of life come, He is NEAR!  Talk to Him today and let Him know that you need Him this year!  Lets walk this journey together!

Don’t forget to comment below and let me know how I can be praying and agreeing with you this year!  As always, pop over to www.facebook.com/youareallfair and join the conversation daily!  You are NOT alone!

This is going to be a year of breakthrough for YOU!